TEEN MARRIAGE
By
Gal Yamin
From the dawn of history adolescents' marriage has
been a known phenomenon which might be supported in some cultures or deprived
in others. Teen marriage is defined as the union of two teenagers from the age
range of thirteen to nineteen years old. Almost every country has a legal
minimum age for marriage. Despite laws concerning the age of marriage,
tradition or some other circumstances usually take precedence and marriage
continues to occur at very young ages. Regardless of any culture or aspect,
teen marriage may lead to parental abandonment, dropping out of school,
financial burdens and broken homes.
Parental abandonment is the major predicament which
affects the young couple. As a repercussion of teen marriage which occurs owing
to western circumstances like teen pregnancy, parental abandonment is the main
factor that may leave both teenagers on their own. The adolescents' parents
often find it hard to support their decision to get married, and the young
couple usually has to fend for themselves. This situation often leads to other
problems which usually precipitate the young couple into getting divorced.
Furthermore, teen marriage usually involves dropping
out of school which causes damage to both young adolescents' education. The
young male teenager suddenly finds himself as the bread-winner, and under the
circumstances, has to leave the school and support his family financially. In
addition, the young female has either to stay at home raising their baby or
drop out of school in order to earn money. Not having educational requirements
may coerce the young couple to adapt to harsh reality.
Moreover,
young married teenagers often run into financial burdens. Due to low revenue
and lack of a college diploma, the young couple may suffer from financial
problems which affect their quality of life and their development. In addition
to non- supportive parents, the adolescents might find themselves in a broken
relationship and under ongoing stress. Consequently, both teenagers often turn
to drug use and delinquency.
In addition, broken homes are another repercussion
of teen marriage, and they are the essential implication to violence in the
family, giving up a child for adoption and divorce. Upon giving birth of the
first child, all the problems intensify. All the problems together usually
compel the young couple to live in a broken home or as a last resort to
divorce. In cases in which parents are
supportive, they tend to carry the teenagers' burden of looking after the child
and contending with financial problems.
In summary, teen marriage, no matter what the
factors are, ushers in parental abandonment, dropping out of school, financial
difficulties and usually leads to broken families. Even if teenagers insist on
getting married and risking their future, they should contemplate their
intentions meticulously, and the risks should be taken into account.
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